The Stop Being a (Sad) Bitch List

To Emily

 - What are you telling yourself this time? Are you the victim? Hero? Martyr? Somehow, both at the same time? Or are you aware you're wrong so you're aloof?

- HANDLE IT CORRECTLY. You're probably wrong.

-Why do you feel injusticed? Handle those emotions first, yourself.

- How did they ACTUALLY treat you? vs. What are you projecting? What do you know? (You're probably being a bitch.)

- The key to fixing it is a bit of humility and vulnerability.

-Talk to them kindly. Assume the best. Handle it.

-Jobs are just jobs. There is always another one. There are infinite opportunities and infinite people to love.

-You will be in the wrong. But does there really need to be a right or wrong at all? Handle it.

-DON'T TALK SHIT ABOUT PEOPLE. Nobody wants to hear it. It will always get back to that person. You usually don't mean it anyways.

-Are you tired? Are you hungry? Are you overworked? Fix this issue and you will handle the altercation better.

-Get out of other people's business.

-STOP BEING A BITCH. BE AN ADULT. HANDLE LIFE ACCORDINGLY.

Good job.

Love, Emily